Because of not being rich by maintaining it, which is called neglect, forgetfulness, or lack of ability. Just as some people in this world have wealth for only one lifetime, they may not have it for a lifetime, and they may have wealth that lasts for many generations.
A person who has wealth and wealth does not stay for a long time for four reasons: not seeking wealth that is already destroyed, not repairing old things, not using things that are old, 1. An excessive consumer, a person who consumes things without limit, is someone who is extravagant, 1. A person who is poor in wealth, a person who is a ruler, a woman or a man of good character, who is a ruler, a person who is a householder, 1. A family that has fallen into disgrace and becomes a householder is for these four reasons. This family is sometimes called the Araksha family.
The family of the wealthy, who have a long-term wealth, can be passed down through generations, because of four reasons: Dādhi Kāvesānti, seeking out wealth that has been destroyed or damaged 1. The family of the Padalanga Bodhi, repairing and replacing old things 1, Parimit Bhojāna, the user of limited things without wasting them 1. Silavanta, Itthi, Purisam, Athipachya, Vebeti, placing a virtuous woman or man in a place as the head of the household 1. A person who has these four reasons is called one who has sufficient capacity.
Taking care to manage wealth carefully so that it does not perish or be lost in vain is a very good deed, but one should try to do this continuously, practicing the third capacity, which is Kalyanamitta.
The third benefit of the sermon
3. The Endowment of Good Friends or Company: Knowing how to associate with good friends or how to make good friends: This is very important. Associating with bad people is a cause of all destruction. If you associate with good people, you can help find happiness in both wealth and fame according to their skills. In a company or cooperative, the selection of members must only take good and right members, otherwise they will not achieve results, the cooperative or company will surely collapse. If you have good friends, choose people to associate with, be very careful not to associate with bad people. Good friends help to achieve the task, help not to lose the good work, help to improve both the original abilities. I, Your Majesty, have written a lot about good friends and bad friends in the book #People with Work, so in this book I will not explain much, but only clarify the Dhamma that the Buddha expressed about the benefits of the present and the future. All benefits that are achieved are achieved through hard work, not from laziness. Even in this story of the good friend, the Buddha often spoke about the benefits of both the worldly and the Dhamma, so that Buddhists should be careful in their relationships, be careful and diligent, lest they become like Ajatasattu, who was punished in the afterlife because of his association with devas. The vine is not bitter, but it becomes a poison because it is with sugar. A good horse becomes lame because it learns to follow its master, who is lame even if he is not taught, but this is because being together or something else, such as fruits or flowers, can also be crossed by the power of growing close together. It is necessary to say something to people who always follow each other.
A man died because he took a bear as a friend. According to a fairy tale, a man needed to sleep in the forest, leaving a bear as a friend to protect him. When he fell asleep, an insect flew to him. The bear was very careful to chase the insect, but the insect did not fly far. It chased it up and down until it landed on the tip of the man's nose. The bear was very angry with the insect. << Oh, this fool thinks that I do not dare to kill you? >> Then the bear picked up a large stone and threw it at the insect that was stuck in his nose, and the person's head was also cut off. This is a message not to trust or associate with ignorant people.
There are 4 types of bad friends and they are characterized by the following characteristics:
A- People who only think about their own interests
• Think for themselves
• Willing to take advantage of a little and only want a lot
• When they are scared, they rush to help their friends with their tasks
• They associate with friends because they see their own interests
B- People who only talk about their own interests
• Are good at bringing up things that have already been discussed
• Are good at bringing up things that have not yet come to light
• Helping with useless things
• When a friend is in trouble, they always make excuses that they are busy or have other things to do
C- People who are deceitful
Scheming means talking and talking, using all kinds of tricks to help them manage their tasks, just by whining, whining, and using deceitful means to impress others.
("Heh heh" or "heh heh" according to the dictionary means to make a sound while working, etc. A heh heh is a person who only talks, without any physical help during each work, etc. If you can't help someone, just help him. The word "heh" can be changed to "heh te samdang lekh" (heh te samdang lekh), that is, heh te samdang lekh, meaning only words that can help nothing solid.)
• When a friend does something bad, he also praises
• When a friend does something good, he also praises
• In front of a friend, he praises
• In the absence of a friend, he criticizes and slanders
D-People lead only to ruin
• Make friends drop out of school
• When a friend drinks alcohol, he also drinks
• When a friend walks at night, he also walks
• Always leads a wise friend to useless things, wasting time.
The 8 characteristics of well-being, as Buddhist scholars have suggested, are a perspective on well-being. Friends say that a good friend is
A good friend has 8 qualities:
1- A good friend (good friend) does not abandon each other in times of need.
2- A good friend always helps protect a friend, both in front of and when the friend is absent.
3- A good friend does not say sweet words, but always says kind words, meaning both in front of and behind.
4- When in need, a good friend is always there.
5- If you want others to be good friends with you, you must first try to improve yourself, be a good person yourself, and be a good friend.
6- A good friend never expects to receive love from others, but always tries to give love to yourself and be a giver of love to others, which is the virtue.
7- A true good friend always has the habit of doing good, speaking good, thinking good, and living without neglecting and doing everything wisely.
8- The welfare of friends is to spread kindness. May all beings be happy and free from harm and persecution. May all good people be victorious in all places and times. May all beings live in peace, live with integrity and wisdom.
There are 4 types of friends that should be associated with
1. There are 4 types of friends that have difficulties
A- Friends who protect friends when friends are careless. Good people, when they see their friends losing their minds in something, such as work or study, and are doing bad things, help protect them or talk to them to bring them back to their senses, not just talking about the past.
B- Friends who protect the property of friends who are careless. We humans are usually careless, so we need good friends because good friends always help take care of our property when we forget things or when we are not at home, etc.
C- A true friend is a support when a friend is in danger. This type of friend always helps solve a friend's problems or always helps protect a friend. When a friend has a problem, they always take care of themselves and say, "I am here, please don't worry."
D- A friend, when a friend has a need, also gives more than the friend needs. This type of friend is a generous friend, always favors a friend with kindness. For example, if a friend has a sick child and needs 10,000 riels to treat the child, they give 15,000 or 20,000 riels out of kindness because they are afraid that it will not be enough.
2. There are four ways to share happiness with a friend
A- A friend tells his secrets to a friend. There are some things that we cannot solve on our own, so we must reveal those secrets. Tell a friend. Sometimes that friend can help solve them. But don't just talk about them indiscriminately because it may make the problem worse.
B- A friend who knows how to help keep a friend's secrets. This type of friend is like a parent. They don't always tell their friend's secrets to others, but only help protect their friend's honor.
C- A friend who doesn't abandon a friend when a friend has a crisis. In daily life, small and big crises often occur, but we can have friends who share happiness and sorrow together. Because the saying goes, friends share happiness and sorrow not only in happiness, but also in sorrow.
D- A friend who even dares to sacrifice his life for the sake of his friend. This type of friend always helps protect the interests of his friend, not just his wealth or limbs, even to the point of sacrificing his life for his friend.

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